In Florida, Julie encourages this experienced horse to take jumps confidently-even in new places.
Photo by: The Whole Picture, LLC.
Horses
know good leadership when they see it because their lives depend upon
it. We probably all agree that the ultimate relationship with a horse is
one in which the horse looks up to you, wants to be with you and feels
safe and peaceful in your presence. But all the groundwork and
relationship building exercises in the world won't help you develop this
relationship unless you present yourself as a competent leader at all
times.
In
every clinic that I teach, people ask how they can get their horse to
trust them more, yet I see them constantly doing things that show their
horses that they lack judgment and make poor decisions. It's funny that
horses see this so clearly, but humans-not so much.
Your
job as the leader is to watch out for the safety of your followers.
Every time you give a horse a reason to question your judgment-because
you've put him in a situation he perceives as unsafe-you're chipping
away at his faith in you.
Here
are three common mistakes I see people making every day with their
horses that give the horse good reasons not to trust their judgment and
leadership. Watch for these mistakes closely the next time you interact
with your horse; make sure that you are the leader your horse deserves.
Putting the Horse on a Collision Course
An
obedient riding horse goes in the direction you dictate, at the speed
you set, without argument. The problem is that horses are much more
spatially aware than humans. Horses worry about the other horses in the
arena and they expect the leader to watch ahead and prevent any
potential horse-to-horse collision or conflict.
Most
people are so consumed with themselves, that they are oblivious to
their surroundings, including what the other horses are doing. Your
horse always recognizes your lack of awareness, because his safety
depends upon it. He sees the hazard even when you don't.
I
often see this when people are longeing or circling in an arena where
there are other horses. First of all, let's be clear on this,
longeing a horse in an arena where horses are being ridden is dangerous
and should never happen-that's a pretty basic safety rule. At clinics,
when everyone is doing circling work (and no horses are being ridden),
people will still put their horses on a collision course with another
horse. The horse always sees it; the person seldom does. If you do this,
your horse starts doubting your judgment.
I
also see this in the arena when all riders have their own agendas. The
smart riders (and the good leaders) are looking well ahead. But
invariably, there will be riders totally focused down on the horse's
withers, concentrating only on themselves, not even aware of their own
horse let alone the other horses in the arena. Being aware of danger in
the environment is such a basic job of the leader that it is hard for
your horse to think of you that way when you are failing at such a basic
task.
Putting the Horse Between a Rock and a Hard Place
Your
horse may view any given situation much differently than you and he
sees danger where you may not. We, as humans, tend to analyze,
rationalize and justify the situation, while to your horse it's
simple-it's either safe or not. I often see riders and
handlers put their horses in very precarious situations, with seemingly
no awareness that it was risky for the horse. Perhaps the rider had no
awareness of how the horse views the situation. Or perhaps the rider
made an executive decision to override instinct and go into an unsafe
situation anyway because her logic tells her it's safe (logic that
the horse may not possess).
This
happens at my clinics while we are working on teaching the horse to
step back with a subtle hand signal. I always catch people backing their
horse into a solid fence or worse, another horse. He knows it to be
wrong and unsafe. People get so caught up in the exercise of teaching
the hand signal, that they lose all awareness of the surroundings and
abdicate all responsibility for leadership.
Similar
examples from the ground include asking a horse to step into a trailer,
then standing right in front of him so he would have to bowl you over
in order to comply. He's pretty sure he's not supposed to do that. Or
asking the horse to trot on the lead line, but remaining right in front
of him so there's nowhere for him to go without running into you. It
feels like a trap.
When
riding in a group, it's your job to keep your horse safe. Still, I see
riders pass between a horse and the fence. Entrapment! There's a reason
fundamental safety rules exist-and it's a fundamental rule to never pass
between a horse and the rail. Horses can be very opportunistic when it
comes to aggressive behavior and many horses will kick, given this
opportunity. Your horse knows that as well and he has good reason to
question your judgment when he is the one that will likely take the
blow.
Asking the Horse to do Something, Then Punishing him When he Does
Horses,
by nature, are very willing animals that instinctively seek out
approval and acceptance from the herd leader. When you are a fair and
consistent leader, your horse will work hard to please you and will feel
safe and content in your presence. When you notice his efforts
and praise him for giving of himself, then your relationship kicks to a
whole new level. There's no limit to how hard a horse will try to please
you when the right kind of give-and-take relationship exists.
We
humans tend to fall down on our leadership in some very gut-wrenching
ways to the horse. Often I see riders give a cue to the horse, then
inadvertently punish him for responding to the cue. The most common
example of this occurs in the canter departure. The rider may lack
confidence. The horse is cued to canter, then hit in the mouth with the
bit when he does (because his head moves into the bit in that moment).
It hurts his mouth and scares him, leaving him with the feeling that he
is being punished for doing what was asked.
Sometimes
I see riders miscue their horse then admonish him for responding to the
cue given. Then the rider wonders why he suddenly stopped responding to
that cue. A perfect example is seen frequently when the rider, with two
hands on the reins, asks the horse to turn with the inside rein, then
starts pulling on the outside rein too, effectively pulling the nose in
two directions at the same time. Pulling on two reins to turn puts
incredible undue pressure on the horse's mouth. It appears to him that
you asked him to turn, then penalized him with the outside rein when he
did. In that moment, the mistake was the rider's (it's the leader's job
to be clear in her directives). The horse did exactly what he was told
to do then was admonished for trying.
Being
a good handler and good rider takes a lot of time and effort and a lot
more awareness of the horse. The more we can think from our horse's
point of view, the deeper our level of understanding of his behavior and
the more rewarding the relationship with the horse. They are
complicated animals, perceiving much more about us than we do about
ourselves. That's what makes horses so therapeutic to our souls.
Seek
out help and have others watch you-they'll catch on faster than you
about what cues you may be giving the horse. They'll see what you can't.
Let your horse guide you. He won't lie to you; he either thinks of you
as the leader or not. If he's resistant and argumentative, he probably
has a good reason. If he trusts you and looks up to you, you're a good
leader.
